I am in a dilemma of sorts. I have been in love with my boyfriend of three years and we have been going steady for a long while now. Recently my best friend T professed his love for me. This has been a difficult time for me because I truly do love T as my friend and his sudden admission has led me to believe that perhaps I have had similar feelings for him too. Ever since he told me how he feels I haven't been able to get my mind off it. He asked me to choose between my boyfriend and him but I really don't know what to do. I don't know where my heart is, but I know it won't be in the best place if I leave my boyfriend or if I lose my friend.
Oh, alas the ultimate problem of choosing between friend and lover. While the choice itself would seem easy to make, what bothers me is your reluctance with this decision. Are you sure about your feelings towards your boyfriend? Have you really taken some time out to think about what matters to you more? I think the best thing to do right now is to take some time off and think about what you really want. Ask yourself who you see yourself with in the next ten years - T or your boyfriend? Best of luck.
