I am in love with my best friend. He had a girlfriend but they’re always breaking up on and off. I too, had a boyfriend but I broke up long ago and right now I’m single. However, I do date men here and there, but nothing serious. There have often been instances where my best friend and I have shared moments that I felt were not very friendly. Sometimes he says a few things that make me believe that perhaps he has feelings for me too. He even admitted to a close friend to having feelings but he said he didn’t understand when would be the right time. I’m afraid to lose him as a friend so I don’t know how to tell him or if I should at all.
What do you have to lose by telling him so, or showing him that you care about him in a different way? Are you afraid of being rejected or of having misunderstood his feelings for you? Or are you not really sure about ‘your’ feelings towards him? May be you do not trust him enough, given that he is an on and off boyfriend to his girlfriend? Think about it, listen to your inner wisdom.
Our Agony Aunt is a Life Coach and Relationship Coach as well as a Corporate and Organisational Consultant. AA lives and works in Bangladesh but travels extensively around the world to give seminars and to see her clients
