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Update : 18 Apr 2015, 12:48 PM

My girlfriend is very territorial about her problems. She won’t share them with anyone; she won’t give anyone a chance to help her through it. And she can, at least most of the times. However, for the last few months I have noticed her become a little too quiet. She is obviously going through a very dark patch, and I genuinely want to help her through it. But I can’t help her if I don’t know what’s bothering her. I have tried talking to her about it, and she has shut me out every time, telling me she has it under control. How do I get through to her without her feeling I’m invading her personal space?

Your girlfriend may be depressed, and may have some family problems she is too afraid to share in case you may judge her, and her self-esteem may be very low. So many things could be the cause of her being reticent and not wanting to share what’s wrong. If you love her, and you feel she loves you, show her that you care for her and if you can accept the situation, and be patient with her. If you are about to get married, you want to make sure this is not her usual modus vivendi, because if it is so, there could be great difficulties in the couple communication that may eventually lead to a break up. Don’t give up yet! 


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