Teaching your child about religion is not an easy task. Be prepared for an onslaught of questions, but also encourage such questions – even those that question the fundamentals of your own conviction. Once you have laid a foundation for a single belief, you can develop that by showing how this belief clashes with another, or how they align with others.
When we approach these discussions with empathy and open-mindedness, it is not nearly as difficult as it appears. Here are five commandments for teaching your kids about religion.
Expose your kids to many religions
A well-rounded religious education is the one that covers the fundamentals of many religions from a social and historical perspective. What is religion? Why did it come about? What's more, why is it so important to people? Get a few books and teach yourself about different religions – then, tell your kids what you’re learning. Put major religious holidays on your calendar, and use them as opportunities to discuss history and tradition. You may also visit few places of worship, and take your children with you. Religious education is a gift – give it to them.Be respectful towards other religions
When it comes to religion, most people believe that their way is the best way – the right way. But conviction doesn't need to be translated into being arrogant or mean. There is nothing wrong with criticising people for saying or doing hateful things. You may discuss, oppose, or even argue. However, try to do it without name-calling, generalising, or degradation. Let kids know that yours is a household that talks openly and respectfully about tough subjects – including religion.Let your child choose
If you’re going to teach children that it’s okay for individuals to hold religious beliefs, you should give your kids a chance to hold religious convictions as well. There’s no shame in wanting your kids to believe the way you do. So guide them. Teach them the value of science. Explain the difference between fact and faith. Teach them morals and ethics. Tell them about religion from an impartial perspective, and then let them take it from there. Let them know they are free to choose what they want to believe.Don’t lie about your own beliefs
Everyone has the right to his or her own thoughts and beliefs, and that includes you as well. So, don’t hide them. By doing so, not only would you be sending a message that religion is an uncomfortable or intimidating subject, but you’d be making it clear that it’s okay to be ashamed of your beliefs. Admit when you are confused or don’t have all the answers.Raise your children to be critical thinkers
Parents should accept that teaching religion is not simply a tool to help children have a better understanding of belief. This way, it will encourage their critical thinking skills in all aspects of life, and help children understand local and world conflicts between religious groups.
