My 23 year old daughter is in a relationship with a man who has another woman but she won't believe it. She keeps saying she trusts him and knows he's “the one” for her. He's never around, always says he has “work,” whether it's 12:30am or 7 in the afternoon. He's not available during Eid and is also working through the weekend. Sometimes he disappears for days and when he's with her, he's always walking to the balcony to take “personal calls.” He acts very strange and I know something is wrong but my daughter won't hear any of it.
From the looks of it, your daughter desperately wants to stay with him, turning a blind eye to his suspicious behaviour. Perhaps deep down inside she knows he is playing games with her. However, if she doesn't want to admit the truth to herself and come to terms with the situation, you need to take a backseat too. There's no point trying to force your opinions on her. Let her draw her own conclusions for now. It must be upsetting to watch her make these mistakes, but remember that she is a young lady now. It's her choice how she decides to live her life, you can only say so much to her.
