Our Agony Aunt is a Life Coach and Relationship Coach as well as a Corporate and Organisational Consultant. AA lives and works in Bangladesh but travels extensively around the world to give seminars and to see her clients I think my wife is cheating on me but I am not quite sure. She has been talking to her colleague a little too much and their conversations are not all business. I hear them laughing and chatting all the time while she is home and I keep wondering all the time what she is doing at work. I do trust my wife but there has been a communication gap between us as I had been working overtime the last couple of months. Should I confront her or am I just over-thinking it?
How is she with you? Warm and relaxed? If so you should not worry too much, however, if you have read my replies earlier you know that I do not believe in a close relationship between friends of the opposite sex who are married or in a relationship: it mostly ends in tears! Spouses of our friends or colleagues are the first port for affairs!
In a loving way, tell your wife you find it uncomfortable to see how often she is on the phone with that friend. Would she find it comfortable if you did the same with a woman colleague?
