I'm seven weeks pregnant with my boyfriend's baby. Me and K have been together for the past three years, and a month ago I found out I am pregnant. This is totally out-of-the-blue and unexpected. I had the emergency pill but it didn't work. I'm 27 and ready to abort the child, but there seems to be no co-operation from my boyfriend's part. He thinks it isn't his baby, swearing at me and accusing me of being with other men. He refuses to take responsibility and thinks this is my way of trapping into a marriage I've always wanted. Two years ago I did cheat on him with a man from work, but the man's wife found out and told K. We had a disastrous break-up but afterwards he forgave me and we have been ever since. I don't want to keep the baby, but I'm terrified of the idea of not having K by my side while I go through with the abortion.
If you want an abortion, then go right ahead and get it. As for your boyfriend – do you really want to be with someone who treats you like this during such a crucial time? Yes, I agree that you made a mistake before when you cheated on him, but that is in the past. If he's unwilling to shoulder the responsibility of a child, that is entirely his problem. Please try to understand he is not the right man for you. Find help and assistance in your friends, and if possible your family to help you through your abortion. As for him, it is best to call it quits.