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The brothels of Daulatdia: Sex workers to get honourable funeral

  • Published at 02:35 pm February 12th, 2020
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Photo shows Mukul Seikh praying in front of the grave of his mother, former sex worker Hamida Begum, at Daulatdia in Rajbari District on February 8, 2020 AFP

Scores of women gathered at the graveside, weeping for the 65-year-old's passing but also because of the symbolic breakthrough her burial represented

Often treated as less than human in life, there has been little dignity in death for the sex workers of one of the world's biggest brothels: their bodies frequently tossed into unmarked graves or dumped in the river. Until now.

On Thursday, Hamida Begum became the first sex worker from country’s bordello Daulatdia to receive a formal Islamic funeral, breaking a longstanding taboo where prostitution is legal but regarded by many as immoral. 

Scores of women gathered at the graveside, weeping for the 65-year-old's passing but also because of the symbolic breakthrough her burial represented.

"I never dreamed that she would get such an honourable farewell," said Hamida's daughter Laxmi, who followed her mother into the trade.

"My mother was treated like a human being," she added.  

Islamic spiritual leaders have for decades rejected funeral prayers for sex workers because they view prostitution as immoral.

When Hamida died, her family planned to put her in an unmarked grave - standard practice for women like her - but a coalition of sex workers persuaded the local police to talk religious leaders into giving her a proper burial.  

"The Imam was initially reluctant to lead the prayers. But we asked him whether Islam forbids anyone from taking part in the Janaza (funeral prayers) of a sex worker. He had no answer," said Ashiqur Rahman, officer in charge (OC) of Goalondo police station, who oversaw negotiations.

Stigma and shame 

Bangladesh is one of the few Muslim countries in the world where prostitution is legal for women aged 18 or older and workers are required to hold a certificate stating they are adults, and consent to the work. 

The reality is more murky, charities have reported finding girls as young as seven being groomed to sell sex, and warn that trafficking of children for the trade is on the rise.

The police are often accused of being complicit - taking bribes from pimps and brothel owners to provide certification for girls much younger than 18. 

Hamida was just 12 years old when she began sex work in Daulatdia, where more than 1,200 women and girls cater for up to 5,000 clients a day.

The site, one of around 12 legal brothels operating in the country, is a series of shacks spread across a warren of alleyways some 100 kilometres west of Dhaka.

Close to a busy road and rail junction, its frequented by both local and long haul drivers and travellers passing through. 

The brothel was established a century ago under British colonial rule, but moved to its current location, near a ferry station, after locals torched the old complex in 1988.

The sex workers and hundreds of their children live in concrete and tin shanties on a sandbank of the river Padma - often paying exorbitant rents to unscrupulous landlords.

For those forced into the trade,  they can only leave when they've paid off inflated and exorbitant 'debts' to the pimps and madams that bought them 

Even if this is possible, the stigma surrounding sex work means that many feel there is nowhere else to go. 

Buried like dogs 

For decades, when one of them died their bodies would be thrown in the river, or buried in the mud.

In the early 2000s, local authorities gave some wasteground for unmarked graves, and families would pay drug addicts to carry out burials - usually at night without formal prayers.

"If we wanted to bury the dead in the morning, villagers would chase us with bamboo sticks," recalled Jhumur Begum, who heads a sex workers group.

"It was as if a dog has died," said former sex worker Nili Begum, now a grandmother who lives in the brothel where her daughter now works.

But there are hopes that Hamida's funeral will change things for all women in the brothels.

More than 200 mourners attended the religious ceremony, while a further 400 went to the post-funeral feast and prayers, OC Rahman recalled.

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