The It list

Having sailed through your teens and 20's discovering who you are, as you step into your 30's, it is hoped that you've finally developed a distinct personal style. If you're nearing the big three-oh, and are still not sure whether you've arrived, stylewise, here's a checklist of things you should have by your third decade on this planet.

Your go-to shoe

Whether you like your heels sky high or non-existent, there should be at least one pair of dressy shoes in your closet that are well-fitted, and go with everything. As life gets busier, you want a pair of kicks that won't let you down.

Tick tock

Even if you use your cellphone to track the time, you need at least one dressy wristwatch. It's a lifetime investment, one that instantly adds class to your outfit and makes you look like a boss whose time is valuable. Choose a simple, classic design and steer clear of wacky trends.

Pucker up

Even if you don't wear lipstick on a regular basis, make sure you have a signature lip colour that you turn to for special events. This is not to say you can't still experiment every now and then, but by 30, you should have a good idea of the most flattering shade, be it a fiery red or a subtle nude, or even a playful pink.

Scent of a woman

Like your personal pout, it's also good to have a signature scent. You may have one for the summer and a different one for fall, but at least know that kind of notes flatter your natural scent. The olfactory senses are strongly tied to memory, so if you want to be unforgettable, make sure the way you smell is distinctive, in a good way.

Statement sparkle

It could be your wedding ring, or a favourite locket, but finding that piece of jewellery that you never take off, and that your kids will hope to inherit, is a good way as any to show everyone that a lady is in the house.